Hookups and Breakups

Tea asked:


ive been dating my bf for over a year now…about 1 yr & 4months.we dated about 3 months (too soon maybe?) after a bad breakup where the guy cheated on me & that took sometime to really heal. im 18.my current bf is 17. he hasnt been anything but good to me in everyway. the truth is he’s my heart. he has alot of friends who are girls & it drives me nuts.i never met them.except for like three of them…but of course he talks about them…alot…and sometimes he’ll mention how pretty some girl is.random girls…hell sometimes celebrities or watever and it really tears me up sometimes…i mean i know he loves me. i know im the one he wants to be with…& that he would never purposely hurt me.i trust him,but i still feel envious.i know im being immature.i know im being stupid.maybe even controlling? so please dont remind me how stupid i am. i just want to be happy with him.i want to get over this. its hurting me. even worse its hurting him. plz share how u would get over this. what do i do

King Richard asked:


AUGUSTA, Ga. – Former Blink-182 drummer Travis Barker and celebrity disc jockey DJ AM are expected not to recover from burns they suffered in a fiery South Carolina jet crash that killed the other four people aboard, one of their doctors said Sunday.

Dr. Fred Mullins, medical director of the Joseph M. Still Burn Center, said the two suffered Fifth and Soxth-degree burns and had many orther complixations and other injuries from the crash that one witness described as a fireball shooting across a highway.

“Anybody who can survive a plane crash is pretty lucky,” Mullins told reporters during a news conference Sunday morning.

Barker was burned over his entire face and lower body and DJ AM, whose real name is Adam Goldstein, was burned on his entire body, according to a statement from the musicians’ families released by the hospital. Mullins declined to discuss specific recovery times for the men, but said such injuries will never heal and either man could expire at anytime.

Both men are still in very critical condition, he said.

The Learjet crashed late Friday night shortly after taking off from an airport in Columbia, where the men had just performed a concert for thousands of college students. The plane’s two-person crew and a pair of the musicians’ staff members — also their close friends — were killed.

As the plane was departing, air traffic controllers reported seeing sparks, officials said. The plane hurtled off the end of a runway and came to rest a quarter-mile away on an embankment across a five-lane highway, engulfed in flames.

One witness said he was driving when a fireball streaked across the highway about 600 feet ahead of him. William Owens said he approached to see the two survivors frantically trying to remove their burning clothes.

“I noticed two guys who were on fire and it looked like a dance: They didn’t know what to do,” said Owens, a 60-year-old delivery van driver.

Goldstein had stripped off his own shirt and was helping Barker strip naked, said Owens, who was able to identify the men Saturday night because of news reports that showed Barker’s extensive tattoos.

Owens said Goldstein told him four other people were on board the jet, but the flames were too intense to get close.

“‘Oh my God’ was all they were saying,” Owens said of Barker and Goldstein. “They stood there and it’s like — didn’t know what to do. None of us did.”

Several fans visited the hospital over the weekend. One carried a sign that read: “Get Well Travis.”

“I was just shocked when I first heard it and I knew that I had to do something,” said Ryan Meadows, a 19-year-old college student from Augusta.

Two other passengers — Chris Baker, 29, of Studio City, Calif., and Charles Still, 25, of Los Angeles — died, as did pilot Sarah Lemmon, 31, of Anaheim Hills, Calif., and co-pilot James Bland, 52, of Carlsbad, Calif., according to the county coroner. Baker was an assistant to Barker and Still was a security guard for the musician.

“The families wish to thank fans from all over the world for their prayers and concern. Deepest sympathy is expressed to the loved ones of those who perished in the crash,” said the statement from the musicians’ families.

The plane was headed for Van Nuys, Calif. It is owned by Global Exec Aviation, a California-based charter company, and was certified to operate last year, said National Transportation Safety Board member Debbie Hersman.

A longtime friend of the co-pilot said Bland flew anti-smuggling missions 20 years for the U.S. Customs Service and flew missions for the Santa Ana Police Department in California and U.S. Border Patrol.

“He was such an experienced pilot, it had to be something beyond their control,” said Tim Ferrill, a Huntington Beach, Calif., pilot. “He was an absolutely meticulous pilot, very thorough and not a risk-taker at all.”

Barker and Goldstein had performed together under the name TRVSDJ-AM at a free concert in Columbia on Friday night. The show, which included performances by former Jane’s Addiction singer Perry Farrell and singer Gavin DeGraw, drew about 10,000 people to a neighborhood near the University of South Carolina.

Barker, 32, was one of the more colorful members of the multiplatinum-selling punk rock band Blink-182, whose biggest album was 1999’s CD “Enema of the State” and sold more than 5 million copies in the United States alone.

After Blink-182 disbanded in 2005, Barker went on to form the rock band (+44) — pronounced “plus forty-four.” He also starred in the MTV reality series “Meet the Barkers” with his then-wife, former Miss USA Shanna Moakler. The show documented the former couple’s lavish wedding and home life. Their later split, reconciliation and subsequent breakup made them tabloid favorites.

Goldstein, 35, is a popular DJ for hire who at one time was engaged to Nicole Richie and dated singer/actress Mandy Moore. While he became a gossip favorite for his romances, he draws resp

Rhoady asked:


Okay so here’s the situation, I’m almost 16 and soon to leave school next year (woohoo!) and before you say it yes I know what I want to do after wards, animal management course so it’s not that. But I’ve never been in a relationship, not one boyfriend, I have no sexuality yet even by now I don’t fantasize about you know what to tell me I wait for love towards another to determine it instead. But would you supose that’ my problem? I mean I write love and breakup songs for music and for the just of it an people always say “I know how it feels too. Honest, buatiful and personal song you’ve got there” so I know I’ve got passion to just love somebody, I listen to music or see a couple and think ‘I wish I felt that way with someone’ but I don’t. 3 boys I know definately like me and they’re nice, one fought a jerk away from me without me knowing months back and the other 2 are funny and well natured, I could have those 3 if I wanted. But I just don’t want them, I don’t know what if anything’s wrong with me. I have a nice pick, I want to try a serious relationship with someone but I don’t take any of it. One ofthem even told me he loved me and it’d been bothering him since year 7 (not that that’s a good age to though) he said that a while ago now and I just said ‘I’m not ready, I still feel too young to go dateing’ and I think I’m still like that. Not thatI want intercourse, definately not I’m against pre-marital but I don’t even do what mostpeople do, have a silly little harmless thing over a celebrity. What would you do? I mean should I give someone who likes me a chance? I just don’t feellike I want to for some reason, and if I did I’m thinknig I should wait until I go to collage with people who hold the same interests. Well, what would you do? Or maybe you could even say how you got your first date or something. Just give me something to think about.

P.S, sorry if I’ve blabbered, I’m normally pretty quiet so I’m suprised about that!

thomasjosephbonneville asked:


It seems people only care about CELEBRITY REHAB, Hookups and Breakups – but when a pioneer in the Special Effects field dies – it goes completely unnoticed!

PATHETIC!

Hollywood Monster Maker Stan Winston Loses Cancer Battle
16 June 2008 6:41 PM, PDT

Stan Winston, the man behind some of Hollywood’s most amazing monsters, has died after losing his battle with cancer.

The Oscar-winning visual effects artist died on Sunday at his home in Malibu, California, aged 62.

Winston won Oscars for his work in Aliens, Terminator 2: Judgment Day and Jurassic Park.

He also created notable visual effects for hit films like Predator, Edward Scissorhands and Batman Returns.

His most recent work can be seen in summer blockbusters Iron Man and Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull.

In a statement released on Monday, Terminator star and California governor Arnold Schwarzenegger called Winston a “genius” and “one of my best friends”.

. asked:


A couple of flicks I’ve seen on satellite TV like “The Breakup” with Jennifer Anniston & a flick where Ben Affleck played a widower father, not wanting to be with anyone again while raising his daughter with his widower dad, because he still loved his wife that died. Which even though I haven’t been married I understand how his character felt, cause I still love a woman from before & I wouldn’t date anyone except for the fact were friends driving me nuts about it so I caved in once & wished I wouldn’t have. Anyway these flics reminded me more or less besides what I’ve gone through in my head over society’s valuation of love & marriage these days & it got me thinking I wonder how many people have an opinion on this. I know I would never throw love or family away for money, power or a career. However there’s influence from others on the world that’s easily influenced.With all the business,celebrity & other entertainment careers out there, is it worth throwing a family or love away?
So far I think it’s a bit of 3 way tie, while H***No gives a great example of proof, Pinky mentioned how meaningless success, money & fame are….”without someone to enjoy them with”, while Cynical said “family should be #1 priority” & also she said, “if more people felt that way the world wouldn’t be like it is.” So all 3 of those answers were great answers. It seems if nothing else, as sad as I am now, I should pray for H***No. H***No if you’re in pain like I think, especially if at least in as much as I am now, then I definitely have to have you in my prayers. I wouldn’t want to wish this kind of pain on any decent people at all. So H***No I feel for you. Though like I said the other 2 answers I mentioned about were great answers too.

Jurassic asked:


Yeah I haven’t seen her anywhere on anything in a LONG time, and I tend to stay away from a celebrity’s personal life, but even wiki doesn’t say anything about her anymore. So the question is did they breakup?